Relationship Advice Tip 1 BRING BACK THE FUN

As time goes by it can be all too easy to forget the small things you shared together, the things you laughed at, the things that you had fun doing together. Start by thinking back to your happier days and make a list of what you were you doing together that made you both happy. It might not be possible to do all of them now, especially if you have kids and or more responsibility at work, longer hours, no home help, however, try for a minute to think about what fun things you could do together that what would fit into your current lifestyle. Even if its just one thing, give yourself time together to laugh and have fun, whether its one evening a week, one morning on the week-end when a friend can watch the kids or one night a month when you can do something you both love. Pick something that will make you both feel good. If for whatever reason you can’t get out or do anything even sitting down together, playing games or looking over old photos of the two of you having fun can instantly make you feel good too.

 

This is especially key if you find it hard to access positive times and things about your partner. Marriage problems can seem far worse when good memories have been eroded.  In order to have a strong relationship, it is crucial to connect to the happy times and make them come alive again.

 

Stayed tuned for relationship advice tip 2 tomorrow.

 

With love, Nicola

Nicola Beer- Founder of Save the Marriage Program – An Alternative to Marriage Counselling That Works! Available in Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Saudi Arabia and Internationally Nicola

Contact or find out more about me at www.nicolabeer.com

 

P.S If your marriage is in serious trouble or you are currently going through or coming out of a separation or divorce and are dreading the holidays – get in touch with me. For the next 3 weeks until the 10th January,  I will be making time in my schedule for 3 Free Consultations each week. To book directly for marriage saving visit

http://savemymarriageprogram.com/consult/ for Divorce support email me on nicola@purepeacecoaching.com to book and I’ll send you a link to my calendar.

 

PP.S If you know the holidays are a trigger time for you or are concerned things may not go as planned I want you to know I will be open during Christmas and New Year for calls or visits. This time of year can be challenging and I will be here to support you. If this resonates with you – you are welcome to book via whats app +971509454233 or email nicola@purepeacecoaching.com  With love and best wishes

 

Nicola Beer- Founder of Save the Marriage Program – An Alternative to Marriage Counselling That Works! Available in Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Saudi Arabia and Internationally Nicola Nicola Beer- Founder of Save the Marriage Program – An Alternative to Marriage Counseling in Dubai, Abu Dhabi and Saudi Arabia That Works!