Relationship Advice Tip 2 Be Present
Relationship Advice Tip 2 BE PRESENT
By Nicola Beer- Founder of Save the Marriage Program – An Alternative to Marriage Counseling, That Works. Available in Dubai, Abu Dhabi and Internationally Via Skype!
One of the biggest issues we face in today’s society is that there are so many distractions. Imagine you have been really looking forward to seeing your partner when he/she gets back and that you have some very exciting news to tell them. Yet when they walk through the door they are on their phone. They walk past you, nod, walk straight to the fridge and carry on talking.
Then later when they are finished on the phone, it’s too late, you have already shared the news on social media and you are tuned into the TV or busy surfing the net.
This can destroy relationships and create a lot of marriage problems.
Why? Because if we are not present or ‘truly there’ for our partners, it can lead to disconnection or resentment. So, what’s the solution?
There is not one size fits all, you need to discuss and devise your own boundaries. For some couples that is to turn off their mobile phones during dinner time or an hour or two before bed. Some ban mobile phones, TV and Lap Tops from the lounge or bedroom.
In this example if you are the partner who has just got a call as you arrive home, take the call in the car and once its finished turn off your phone for 20 minutes and go inside and greet your family. Really listen to them, give them your full attention. Being Present always pays off. One of the highest reasons for divorce is neglect. A simple embrace daily does not take much effort or time, yet it can go a long way to create more happiness and closeness in a relationship. Aim to be present as much as you can, even if it’s just 20 minutes. You will soon reap the benefits.
from my heart to yours, Nicola
Nicola Beer- Founder of Save the Marriage Program – An Alternative to Marriage Counseling, That Works. Available in Dubai, Abu Dhabi and Internationally Via Skype!
Contact or find out more about me at www.nicolabeer.com
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