Save My Marriage Program

Next Group Starts

 Monday 10th October and Runs for 10 weeks

 

At the end of the program you will have

  • Saved your marriage and avoided divorce
  • Got the marriage you want and feel stronger and happier in your relationship
  • Become closer and like a team rather than two individuals
  • Changed a "checked out" or obstinate spouse to connect and communicate
  • Be able to resolve conflicts peacefully and quickly, increasing respect and appreciation
  • Increase your connection and become irresistible to your partner, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs.
  • Have revived your physical intimacy and passion for one another
  • Have a method to get over old hurt and leave the past behind you
  • Overcome any resentment and be making plans for your future
  • No longer let negative thoughts get in your way of having the life and relationship you deserve
  • Create a secure, positive and loving environment for your children to flourish in

 

Save My Marriage Program Outline

 

Week 1  Step 1 Commit to Your Vision and Put LOVE First

 

  • Discover your true power to transform your marriage single-handedly whether your partner joins or not. This step is important as it means no more wasting time or waiting for things to get better - I will help you step fully into your own power.
  • Commit to your vision and why your saving your marriage is important to you, so you are super strong when any doubts or negative thoughts creep in.
  • Put LOVE First In order to have a good marriage Love has to come first! Especially when things are strained . It's not as easy as just thinking or saying my marriage is important me. So we will give you a list of 15 simple habits you can choose from so you can start seeing results straight away. I will also teach you how to get your spouse on board too.
  • This step is important because unless love and your marriage becomes a priority, it will take longer and be harder to change.
  • As a bonus you will also learn tips from health experts on how to keep your energy, confidence and happiness levels high, so you remain good humored in tense times or even if your spouse hasn't changed just yet

 

Week 2  Step 2 Identifying what You Need to Be Happy and "In Love"

 

  • I will walk you through the 14 most vital relationship needs, so can discover what you require to fall back "in love" and "stay in love" I will also help you detect your partners, if asking him is out of the question.
  • This step is crucial to a happy life together because knowing what your top 5 are will give you a clear blueprint of what needs to happen to fall back and stay "in love"
  • Being "in love" as opposed to loving your spouse like a friend or family member is the best gift you can give your marriage. Not only will you get along easier, resolve differences quicker and forgive more freely, you will also bring back the passion.
  • Get clear on what exactly you want your marriage to be like and what will bring you greater happiness and fulfillment. To help you stay on track and not settle for less than you deserve.

 

 

Week 3   Step 3 Reconnecting and Becoming Close Again

 

  • Armed with your top 5 relationship needs and your partners top 5 (or a good idea of them), I will show you HOW to satisfy each their needs, so you become irresistible to your spouse, thereby  eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs.
  • I will provide practical examples and ideas for each of the 14 vital needs, so you can love more sensitively and intimately and notice things changing between you quickly.
  • This step is crucial as it's the actions we take daily that change relationships, no one ever saves a marriage by discussing problems or words alone.

 

 

Week 4  Step 4 Reviving Your Physical Intimacy

 

  • Physical intimacy is a wonderful relationship strengthener when going well and a cause of anxiety, disappointment and frustration, when it is not.  So I want to make sure you have the tools to make your physical intimacy great.
  • I will combine my experience supporting hundreds of couples along with strategies from 3 different other marriage experts. So that you can choose what will best work for you and your marriage.
  • I don't believe there is one way to fix it, so you will leave empowered, excited and energized with practical advice from 4 sources. I'll also share my secret tip to increase your love-making enjoyment and a great first step to take to resolve any sexual problems privately.

 

Week 5  Step 5 Eliminating Negativity and Retaliation

 

  • Learn how to SNAP OUT of negativity and retaliation two of the most destructive habits that ruin relationships.
  • Discover how to change habitual thoughts that don't serve you into to positive and the 5 secrets to protect yourself from your spouse's negativity until they change
  • Overcome the 3 types of Retaliation: Victim, Attack and Payback and the difference between standing up for yourself and retaliation.
  • Bonus optional exercises that you can share and practice with your partner

 

 

 

 Week 6 Step 6  Values, Motivation and Change 

 

  • Values are important as they motivate what we do and how we feel after. I will teach you the secrets to motivating your partner to change
  • As well as understand what fears drive men and women, so you can be there for them when they need it and stop unnecessary disagreements or distance
  • Discover how to help a man when he feels stressed, angry or down
  • Discover how to help a woman when she feels anxious, concerned, stressed
  • Understand why Compassion is more important than love
  • Explore whether you are making it easy or difficult for your partner to change and how to shift that if you need too.
  • This step is powerful as once you uncover your core values and your partners, motivation and change in the way you relate will seem easy.

 

 

Week 7  Step 7  Overcoming Resentment and Embracing Forgiveness

 

  • Resentment is a silent relationship killer that affects the present and future, so needs to be let go of in order to move forward.
  • You will learn a way to release past hurt once and for all, so you can both stop dwelling on it and enjoy the moment.
  • Know exactly how to process grievances so that they don't linger
  • Know how to forgive and free yourself

 

 

 

Week 8   Step 8 Joint Agreement and Successful Negotiation

 

  • Learn how to create the habit of making enthusiastic joint agreements, so neither of you feel compromised or forced
  • Learn how to make negotiations pleasant and safe, in an environment that fosters mutual respect for both perspectives
  • Learn how to keep your cool and stay true to who you are in the face of differences and fights
  • Discover how to cut tension and repair quickly if debates get heated or out of control
  • Develop the art of staying on a problem, so you can resolve it quickly rather than let it escalate
  • This step is important because once your able to make effective decisions together your constantly be a winning team than two opposing individuals.

 

 

Week 9 Step 9  Fostering an Environment for Effective Communication  

 

  • Learning communication skills, may work in the office and sound good in theory but in marriage good communication only happens if there is a strong connection.
  • In this step I will show you:  How to Talk so they will Listen, How to connect so they will Talk and how to create an environment where sharing becomes a regular habit.
  • Connection and communication are the foundation of a successful marriage this step will help to ensure your happiness increases and divorce is avoided.

 

 

Week 10 Step 10 Creating a Shared Meaning For Your Life Together

  • Having a shared purpose, dream and reason for being together, is the glue that holds a couple close through difficult times.
  • I will help you to uncover your shared meaning, create a vision for your future, that you can share with your spouse to get them on board
  • I'll also help you define some shared rituals for your marriage that will keep your relationship fulfilling right now and in the future.

 

 BONUSES 

 

BONUS #1  INFIDELITY - How to Ruin Their Affair, Recover from It and Affair Proof Your Marriage  $2000 Value

 

  • Audio track where I cover what infidelity is and the different types that occur
  • Outline the relationship vulnerabilities that lead to affairs
  • What to do if you suspect your spouse is having an affair
  • What to do if find yourself attracted to someone else
  • What to do if your spouse has internet friends or is friends with their ex
  • How to restore respect and trust after an affair
  • How to move forward and forgive your spouse or self
  • Ways to bring love and intimacy back into the relationship

 

 

BONUS #2 SECRET FORMULA FOR LASTING LOVE    $1000 Value

 

  • Attention - I'll share with you the amount of hours of undivided attention that is needed each week to meet the most important needs, so you avoid one of the most common mistakes in marriage - neglect.
  • Appreciation - I'll give you a simple everyday technique to make appreciating each other a natural part of your routine, which will keep your closeness and affairs at bay.
  • Affection - symbolizes care and protection and therefore essential for lasting marriage bliss, learn 5 simple daily habits that will literally transform the way you live and experience life together, based on scientific studies you won't have heard anywhere else.

 

 

BONUS #3  EXCESSIVE ANGER - How to stop it Ruining Your Marriage  $1500 Value

 

  • I'll explain what triggers anger, why we keep it and the 4 crucial steps to manage anger effectively including: recognizing the triggers and warning signs, cooling down tips, channeling anger in different ways, actions to do in the moment. So if you or your spouse that ends up in fits of rage your know what to do to calm the situation and protect your marriage.
  • Plus extra tips on how to deal with a loved one's anger
  • Knowing the signs when it's good to get extra support and resources available to you

 

BONUS  #4  ONLINE PRIVATE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY SUPPORT  Network $1500 Value

 

  • Benefit from a private supportive community of like-minded women or men determined to save their marriage, learn from each other, share tips and advice and ask questions in this caring, friendly
  • There are two separate groups, one for women and one for men and your spouse is also welcome to join the opposite group if they choose.

 

BONUS   #5   30 MINUTE PRIVATE IMPLEMENTATION CALL WITH NICOLA BEER $500 Value

  • Get individual tailored advice on how to move forward at the end of the program. All calls can be booked within the last 2 weeks of the program and the following 2 weeks after.

 

Yes, Nicola

I would love to join you in the
Save My Marriage Program

 

When I join the Save My Marriage Program, I will receive:

  • Membership in the Save My Marriage Program, including access to the all the
  • Audio Recordings of the 10 Steps and work book with exercises to complete ($6000 value)
  • 10 Monthly Members-Only Group Calls ($6000 value)
  • Access to the Private Save My Marriage Facebook Group (1500 Value)
  • 30 Minute Private 1 to 1 FREE Save My Marriage Implementation Call ($500 value)

Plus, these awesome bonuses:

  • BONUS #1: Infidelity how to Ruin Their Affair, Recover from it and Affair-Proof Your Marriage  ($2000 value)
  • BONUS #2: The Secret Formula for Lasting Love  ($1000 value)
  • BONUS #3: Preventing Anger From Ruining The Marriage ($1500 value)
  • Recordings of All Calls

TOTAL VALUE: $17,000

Only $997 for 3 Months of Support, Training,
Coaching, and Masterminding!

 

Choose Your Payment Option:

$997 Full Payment

 

$797 Early Bird Payment before 10th September

or

3 x Installments of $347 paid on 10th of each month starting October 10th

 

Starting The Program is RISK FREE 

100% Money-Back Guarantee

 

 money back guarantee

 

I want you to be absolutely satisfied with your coaching experience, so I give a 100% money back guarantee...

If for any reason you don’t get the results as promised or are not completely satisfied within 75 days of the program and you made an honest effort to implement all the strategies and tools provided, make all of the coaching calls and agreed upon accountability updates and you are STILL not satisfied or seeing results by the end of your program. I will return the investment you paid if you are still not getting results.  But I know it won't happen because the programs work and I'm going to be there for you every step of the way to make sure you succeed.

It is important to acknowledge that there is no "quick fix" that will change your whole life instantly.  That is completely unrealistic.  However, breakthroughs take place in the first 15 days of the program providing you implement the steps and within 30 days you will have made great strides forward, in 90 days a major transformation will have taken place if you keep implementing the strategies and tools provided.

 

Case Studies of individuals and couples that joined the program

 

CASE STUDY #1 "How Lisa and Tom Rekindled Their Love And Passion In Less Than 2 Weeks After 5 Years of Poor Communication in their 16 Year Marriage "

http://www.savemymarriageprogram.com/marriagecounselingcasestudy2.pdf 

 

CASE STUDY #2 "How Susan and Ed became closer and happier, after the affair in less than 45 Days"

http://www.savemymarriageprogram.com/marriagecounselingcasestudy3.pdf

 

CASE STUDY #3 "How Linda Single-Handedly Saved Her Marriage and Turned Around Her Husband's Anger and Bad Attitude in Less Than 60 Days."

http://www.savemymarriageprogram.com/marriagecounselingcasestudy1.pdf 

 

 What other's had to say...

 

"I reached out to Nicola after listening to her podcast show for sometime. Me and my husband were having lot's of clashes over finances, our children and sex life. It was a nightmare and I thought we were beyond help, but I still loved my husband very much. He refused to get help, so I decided that I would try Nicola's save your marriage where only one person goes. After Nicola shared with me how it works and what power I have to change things, I instantly felt better.

I learnt so much about myself and what my husband was really needing. It worked so well that after a few weeks, he wanted to meet Nicola to thank her and improve our marriage further. It was the first time in our marriage that difficult conversations didn't lead to blazing rows or awkward angry silences. Nicola has a down to earth approach, great strategies and offers consistent support. We are so grateful, things keep on getting better and we have finally turned a corner, I didn't think would be possible." Sarah Dubai 

 

"Before we decided to commit to the coaching we tried to solve all of our issues on our own for a few weeks, but it didn't work, we kept having the same issues come up time and time again. At first my husband was reluctant because he has no free time but  we both knew something had to change. Nicola helped my husband control his anger by channeling it in different ways and also helped me to let go of past hurt for good.  Things have been going great since our skype sessions, we've become closer, laugh and chat again like we did when we first me. The thing about Nicola is she has heaps of knowledge about relationships and behavior and gave us great insight as to how we can change things quickly. I'd recommend Nicola for any couple or individual who want to save their marriage but unsure how." 

Claire, London